When you want something, don’t chase it, don’t try to control it. ALLOW IT to come to you. Allowing means changing your vibrational frequency to the same frequency as the object of your desire. When you are ready to experience it, you will receive it. Until then, find something else easy to focus on, that brings you joy, and with that practice you will realize that the object of your desire is not what will bring you more happiness. Its manifestation will be a result of who you have become.