I find that change can bring immense learning. It brings a new perspective or a new chance to write our story in a different way.
While we can't erase what has been done and said, we can choose to heal ourselves, to forgive ourselves and others as it is the way to true inner peace.
We are taught to accept traditions, religious teachings, to choose "right" over "wrong", even when we didn't fully understand or agree with it.
And because of that we live many years of our lives not in agreement with who we truly are or want to be as we were trained to follow all these other agreements that in fact were someone else's realities, the world dream and not our dreams.
And it's not until we free ourselves from limited thinking and the unjust beliefs and agreements (which only serve to make us feel powerless and be punished instead of helping us to love and accept ourselves) that we start walking our own path which we deliberate choose to create without guilt, without shame.
It's not until we renew our agreements that we can transform our lives and shape our own dreams.
While our dreams may still seem to collide (to some extent) to some other people's dreams, it will also bring together those that have similar dreams because the power to co-create is miraculously strong and our lives are then expressed as our art, a piece of art that is constantly in the making, constantly changing as we also change and grow.
And even on our cloudy days where our art doesn't look beautiful or meaningful to us, we have to remember that although imperfect we can still choose to love it.
Journey in love,
"You are where you are because of who you were, but where you go depends entirely on who you choose to be." ~Hal Elrod